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Hell on earth is not a place but a state of mind!
Have you lived in fear, cowered when a hand is raised, felt empty and alone, or felt that your life has been stolen from you because anxiety and depression is nipping at your heals? Is your laughter gone? Has your spirit been broken, and the word hope is no longer in your vocabulary? I was once in that dark place of no return. My mind, body, heart and soul were broken into a million pieces, and the fear running through my veins were earth shattering. My brain was numb to all rational thinking and thoughts of suicide were like taking a common every day breath. The only thing that saved me was a moment of clarity to realize that I couldn't leave my young children behind with this person I was married to. My isolation and captivity was complete. I am still in counseling for PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) 3 years later, but I am finding out who I really am for the first time in my life. I am loving, smart, funny, and most of all I have learned that I am a good wife and a good mother after 21 years of hearing I wasn't good enough for anything. My life has been forever changed, and life is good. Challenges still arise, but with my new husband and my family always there for me with unconditional love and support I am
making it one day at a time.
My dream is that one day divorce courts will address mental, verbal and psychological (emotional) abuse as a prosecutable offense. The scars run deep and wide with all forms of abuse, just because you can't see them, doesn't mean they don't exist.Research is starting to show that mental abuse is longer lasting to its victims than physical abuse. I can now say I am a survivor!
Hope is something I never had, until my escape became a reality not a dream. Hope is now a wonderful word in my vocabulary, and fear is a thing of the past. My number one goal is to finish school with a PHD degree in Pyschology so that I can help women and men, who are still in that dark place of no return and to keep my children safe and showing them that they are loved. I want to show victims that there is light at the end of the tunnel, and a freedom of the soul they never thought possible. Abused women and men need to know that there is life after they go through hell on earth, a traumatic experience, that will forever change who they are and who they can be.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Wife, unborn child killed in accident
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A 25-year-old Plainview man is facing murder charges after a fatal car accident Sunday night that left his wife and her unborn child dead.According to a press release by the Plainview Police Department, they and Plainview EMS responded about 6 p.m. to the 1700 block of North Columbia after receiving reports of a traffic accident.When they arrived, officers found a gold-colored Pontiac Grand-Am laying on its right side and wrapped around a utility pole. A black- and gray-colored Chevrolet pickup was partially on top of the Grand-Am.
A police press release indicated that the pickup, driven by Juan Castaneda, was observed ramming the Pontiac, driven by his wife, Viviana Castaneda, 24. Viviana had her son, Zameer Castaneda, 5, and her sister, Vanessa Garcia, 25 in her car at the time of the mishap. All three are from Plainview.
According to police, both vehicles were southbound in the 2400 block of North Columbia when Castaneda reportedly struck his wife’s vehicle with such force that it caused her vehicle to veer off the roadway and strike a utility pole.
Viviana Castaneda was airlifted to University Medical Center, where she and her 27-week-old unborn baby later died.
Garcia was flown to Covenant Medical Center in Lubbock and was listed in fair condition Monday afternoon.
Zameer was transported to Covenant Lakeside Children’s Hospital and was listed in critical condition.
Juan Castaneda was transported to Covenant Medical Center in Lubbock and his condition is unknown. Castaneda will be brought to Hale County jail and charged with murder upon his release from the hospital, police said.

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