The Scars of Domestic Violence: My Son is Now an Adult!
I get it, my ex-husband is also a narcissist, but he still has parenting rights, and my children are so messed up emotionally, verbally, and physically tha I live through my personal horror through them now. They are a lot younger and don't understand what he is doing to them. My ex also believes that he is above the law, and rules don't apply to him, the sad thing is he is so manipulative that he gets away with it. I am having to learn that being a protective mom is not always a good thing, because it makes me look like I am being vinfictive instead of trying to protect my children from a monster, when my only goal is to make sure they are safe. CPS has been called on him 3 times now for physical abuse, and they have done nothing, and I am not the one who called. It is sad and hurtful to watch my children struggle, they love their dad, but when his true colors come through to them they hate him. There is a really good book by Nina W Brown called Children of the self-aborbed, A grown up guide to getting over Naricisstic parents. I have not been able to read the whole book yet, because it is so close to home and makes me cry even 3 years later, but it might be worth a read for you and your children. You might also look at by blog Freedom Gives Hope for more insights and books. I have learned that knowledge is strength and power.
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